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Key Phrases

你最近怎么样?

nǐ zuì jìn zěn me yàng

How have you been?

你有什么计划吗?

nǐ yǒu shén me jì huà ma

Do you have any plans?

我已经开始期待了。

wǒ yǐ jīng kāi shǐ qī dài le

I'm already looking forward to it.

Skills You'll Learn

Greeting someone

问候别人

wèn hòu bié rén

Asking about plans

询问计划

xún wèn jì huà

Expressing anticipation

表达期待

biǎo dá qī dài

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine two people exchanging messages, expressing affection and excitement to meet each other. They discuss meeting plans and express eagerness to spend time together in a favorite town next month, with one person agreeing to handle travel arrangements.

你好,亲爱的!你最近怎么样?

nǐ hǎo qīn ài de nǐ zuì jìn zěn me yàng

Hello, dear! How have you been lately?

你好,宝贝!我很好,你呢?

nǐ hǎo bǎo bèi wǒ hěn hǎo nǐ ne

Hello, babe! I'm good, and you?

我也不错。我们什么时候再见面呢?

wǒ yě bù cuò wǒ men shén me shí hòu zài jiàn miàn ne

I'm good too. When shall we meet again?

我也很想快点见到你。你觉得下个月怎么样?

wǒ yě hěn xiǎng kuài diǎn jiàn dào nǐ nǐ jué de xià gè yuè zěn me yàng

I really want to see you soon as well. How about next month?

下个月听起来不错。你有什么计划吗?

xià gè yuè tīng qǐ lái bù cuò nǐ yǒu shén me jì huà ma

Next month sounds good. Do you have any plans?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

👉

你

nǐ

You

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👍

好

hǎo

Good

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👋

你好

nǐ hǎo

Hello

🇨🇳 [你好] is fine and friendly, but between romantic partners it can sound a bit plain unless you're just opening the chat. People often switch to something warmer like [亲爱的] or [宝贝].

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💌

亲

qīn

Dear

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❤️

爱的

ài de

Loved

💬 [的] often turns a description into something noun-like. In [亲爱的], it helps make [亲爱] into 'dear one' or 'dear' the way it's used in address.

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💌

亲爱的

qīn ài de

Dear

🇨🇳 [亲爱的] is a warm, common way to address a partner in texts. It can sound affectionate and natural, but using it with someone you're not close to would feel too intimate.

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⌛

最近

zuì jìn

Lately

💬 [最近] often goes near the start of the sentence to set the time frame: [你最近怎么样?] 'How have you been lately?' You can reuse it the same way in [我最近很忙] or [最近天气不错].

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❓

怎么样

zěn me yàng

How is it

💬 [怎么样] is a very flexible 'how is it/how about it.' You can use it for people, things, or plans: [你怎么样?] [这个怎么样?] [明天怎么样?]

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😊❓

你最近怎么样?

nǐ zuì jìn zěn me yàng

How have you been?

💬 [最近] goes before the comment or question, so [你最近怎么样?] is literally 'you lately how-is-it?' That same order works in [你最近忙吗?] and [你最近开心吗?]

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