
Meeting the in laws again: Presenting simple gifts
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Key Phrases
お邪魔します。
o jama shi masu
Excuse me for intruding.
ありがとうございます
arigatou gozai masu
Thank you
地元の有名なお茶です。
jimoto no yuumei na o cha desu
Famous local tea
Skills You'll Learn
Using honorific language
敬語を使う
keigo o tsukau
Expressing gratitude
感謝の気持ちを表す
kansha no kimochi o arawasu
Offering gifts during visits
訪問時に贈り物をする
houmon ji ni okurimono o suru
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you are visiting a Japanese friend's home. You greet them politely, and they warmly welcome you inside. As a thoughtful guest, you've brought local tea and wine as gifts. Your friend appreciates your gesture and invites you to join their family in the living room where everyone is waiting for you. They prepare tea while you offer to help, but they insist you relax and enjoy the visit.
こんにちは、お邪魔します。
konnichiwa o jama shi masu
Hello, excuse me for intruding.
あら、 Emily Smith さん。いらっしゃい。どうぞ、お上がりください。
ara ^FIRST^ ^LAST^ san irasshai douzo o agari kudasai
Oh, Emily Smith. Welcome. Please, come in.
ありがとうございます。これ、つまらないものですが、どうぞ。
arigatou gozai masu kore tsumara nai mono desu ga douzo
Thank you. This is a little something for you.
まあ、ありがとう。わざわざ持ってきてくれたの?何かしら。
maa arigatou wazawaza motsu te ki te kure ta n nani kashira
Oh, thank you. You brought this all the way? What is it?
地元の有名なお茶です。お母さんが好きだと聞きました。
jimoto no yuumei na o cha desu o kaa san ga suki da to kiki mashi ta
It's famous local tea. I heard your mother likes it.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
こんにちは。
konnichiwa
Hello.
💬 [は] in [こんにちは] is written [は] but said (wa). You'll see that same pronunciation in topic phrases too, like [私は] (watashi wa).
See breakdown →お邪魔します。
o jama shi masu
Excuse me for intruding.
🇯🇵 This is what you say when entering someone else's home. It sounds polite and very natural with in-laws or other people you should show respect to.
See breakdown →いらっしゃい。
irasshai
Welcome
🇯🇵 Hosts say this to welcome someone in, but family often use it more casually than customers would hear in a shop. With in-laws, it feels warm and natural from the home side.
See breakdown →どうぞ
douzo
Please.
💬 [どうぞ] is a flexible "go ahead / here you are / please" word, so its exact English changes with the situation. You can reuse it when offering things too, like [どうぞ、お茶です] or [どうぞ、座ってください] (suwatte kudasai).
See breakdown →お上がりください
o agari kudasai
Please come in.
💬 [お上がりください] literally uses "go up," because stepping up from the entry area into the home is treated as "coming in." You'll hear the same polite pattern in many requests: stem + [ください], like [お座りください] (osuwari kudasai).
🇯🇵 This is a polite host phrase for inviting someone into the home proper after the entryway. It's especially fitting when welcoming guests or someone you want to treat respectfully, like a child's partner.
See breakdown →どうぞ、お上がりください。
douzo o agari kudasai
Please, come in.
🇯🇵 A host says this at the entrance after greeting you and before you step up into the house. It is polite and standard when receiving guests at home.
See breakdown →ありがとうございます
arigatou gozai masu
Thank you
これ
kore
This.
つまらないものですが
tsumara nai mono desu ga
It's nothing special, but...
💬 [ですが] here softens what comes before into "it's not much, but..." and sets up the offering that follows. You can reuse this pattern to be modest before giving something: [ほんの気持ちですが、どうぞ] (honno kimochi desu ga, douzo).
🇯🇵 This is a set modest phrase when giving a gift; the speaker is downplaying it to be polite, not insulting their own present. In Japan that kind of humility often sounds more natural than praising your own gift.
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