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Scene illustrating a Japanese-language meeting the in laws again conversation

Key Phrases

お邪魔します。

o jama shi masu

Excuse me for intruding.

ありがとうございます

arigatou gozai masu

Thank you

地元の有名なお茶です。

jimoto no yuumei na o cha desu

Famous local tea

Skills You'll Learn

Using honorific language

敬語を使う

keigo o tsukau

Expressing gratitude

感謝の気持ちを表す

kansha no kimochi o arawasu

Offering gifts during visits

訪問時に贈り物をする

houmon ji ni okurimono o suru

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you are visiting a Japanese friend's home. You greet them politely, and they warmly welcome you inside. As a thoughtful guest, you've brought local tea and wine as gifts. Your friend appreciates your gesture and invites you to join their family in the living room where everyone is waiting for you. They prepare tea while you offer to help, but they insist you relax and enjoy the visit.

こんにちは、お邪魔します。

konnichiwa o jama shi masu

Hello, excuse me for intruding.

あら、 Emily Smith さん。いらっしゃい。どうぞ、お上がりください。

ara ^FIRST^ ^LAST^ san irasshai douzo o agari kudasai

Oh, Emily Smith. Welcome. Please, come in.

ありがとうございます。これ、つまらないものですが、どうぞ。

arigatou gozai masu kore tsumara nai mono desu ga douzo

Thank you. This is a little something for you.

まあ、ありがとう。わざわざ持ってきてくれたの?何かしら。

maa arigatou wazawaza motsu te ki te kure ta n nani kashira

Oh, thank you. You brought this all the way? What is it?

地元の有名なお茶です。お母さんが好きだと聞きました。

jimoto no yuumei na o cha desu o kaa san ga suki da to kiki mashi ta

It's famous local tea. I heard your mother likes it.

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

👋

こんにちは。

konnichiwa

Hello.

💬 [は] in [こんにちは] is written [は] but said (wa). You'll see that same pronunciation in topic phrases too, like [私は] (watashi wa).

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🙏🚶‍♂️

お邪魔します。

o jama shi masu

Excuse me for intruding.

🇯🇵 This is what you say when entering someone else's home. It sounds polite and very natural with in-laws or other people you should show respect to.

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🤗

いらっしゃい。

irasshai

Welcome

🇯🇵 Hosts say this to welcome someone in, but family often use it more casually than customers would hear in a shop. With in-laws, it feels warm and natural from the home side.

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🙏

どうぞ

douzo

Please.

💬 [どうぞ] is a flexible "go ahead / here you are / please" word, so its exact English changes with the situation. You can reuse it when offering things too, like [どうぞ、お茶です] or [どうぞ、座ってください] (suwatte kudasai).

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🚪🙏

お上がりください

o agari kudasai

Please come in.

💬 [お上がりください] literally uses "go up," because stepping up from the entry area into the home is treated as "coming in." You'll hear the same polite pattern in many requests: stem + [ください], like [お座りください] (osuwari kudasai).

🇯🇵 This is a polite host phrase for inviting someone into the home proper after the entryway. It's especially fitting when welcoming guests or someone you want to treat respectfully, like a child's partner.

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🙏🚪

どうぞ、お上がりください。

douzo o agari kudasai

Please, come in.

🇯🇵 A host says this at the entrance after greeting you and before you step up into the house. It is polite and standard when receiving guests at home.

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🙏

ありがとうございます

arigatou gozai masu

Thank you

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👇

これ

kore

This.

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😅🤷

つまらないものですが

tsumara nai mono desu ga

It's nothing special, but...

💬 [ですが] here softens what comes before into "it's not much, but..." and sets up the offering that follows. You can reuse this pattern to be modest before giving something: [ほんの気持ちですが、どうぞ] (honno kimochi desu ga, douzo).

🇯🇵 This is a set modest phrase when giving a gift; the speaker is downplaying it to be polite, not insulting their own present. In Japan that kind of humility often sounds more natural than praising your own gift.

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