
Key Phrases
すみません
sumi mase n
Excuse me
を返してください
o kaeshi te kudasai
Please return
他の人の猫
hoka no hito no neko
Someone else's cat
Skills You'll Learn
Making polite requests
丁寧にお願いする方法
teinei ni o negai suru houhou
Expressing ownership
所有権の表現
shoyuu ken no hyougen
Negotiating in Japanese
日本語での交渉
nihon go de no koushou
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're witnessing a playful argument between two people regarding the possession of a cat. One person insists that the cat chose them and should stay, while the other tries to persuade them to return the cat to its rightful owner. The discussion becomes light-hearted as they negotiate, eventually leading to a resolution with the offer of cat treats.
すみません、その猫を返してください。
sumi mase n sono neko o kaeshi te kudasai
Excuse me, please return that cat.
だめです!この猫は私を選んだんです。
dame desu kono neko wa watashi o eran da n desu
No way! This cat chose me.
でも、それは他の人の猫ですよ。
de mo sore wa hoka no hito no neko desu yo
But that's someone else's cat.
見てください!猫が私の膝の上にいます。
mi te kudasai neko ga watashi no hiza no ue ni i masu
Look! The cat is on my lap.
猫は誰の膝でも座りますよ。
neko wa dare no hiza de mo suwari masu yo
Cats will sit on anyone's lap.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
すみません
sumi mase n
Excuse me
🇯🇵 [すみません] does a lot of jobs in Japanese: "excuse me," "sorry," and even "thanks for the trouble." To get someone's attention in public, this is much more natural than a direct call like "hey."
See breakdown →その猫
sono neko
That cat
💬 [その] means "that" for something near the other person or already being talked about. Compare [この猫] for "this cat" near you and [あの猫] for "that cat over there."
See breakdown →を返してください
o kaeshi te kudasai
Please return
💬 [返してください] is a useful pattern for polite requests: verb stem + [してください]. You can swap in other verbs, like [見せてください] "please show me" or [待ってください] "please wait."
See breakdown →その猫を返してください
sono neko o kaeshi te kudasai
Please return that cat
💬 [返してください] is a useful pattern for polite requests: verb stem + [ください]. You can reuse it with other actions too, like [助けてください] "please help" or [開けてください] "please open it."
🇯🇵 This is direct but still polite enough for a tense situation. In real life, adding [すみません] first can make it sound less confrontational.
See breakdown →だめです!
dame desu
No way!
💬 [だめ] is a very common "not allowed / no good / impossible," not just a simple yes-no "no." So [だめです] can mean "no way," "that won't work," or "you can't."
See breakdown →この猫は
kono neko wa
This cat
💬 [は] here is said (wa), not (ha). It marks [この猫] as the thing you're talking about: "as for this cat…"
See breakdown →私を
watashi o
Me
選んだんです
eran da n desu
Has chosen
💬 [んです] often adds an "I'm telling you / here's the point" feeling. Compare plain [選んだ] "chose" with [選んだんです], which sounds more like giving an explanation or justification.
See breakdown →この猫は私を選んだんです
kono neko wa watashi o eran da n desu
This cat chose me
💬 [選んだんです] uses [んです] to sound explanatory, like "the thing is, this cat chose me." Japanese often adds this when giving a reason or defending a claim.
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